"I reckon people think of the past because it was an unfulfilled love. You think of something which was not whole and how it would be a fulfilled love when all the 'what ifs' and 'if only' have been included. But that does not mean that you want to trade the present for the past."
how very very very true.
read xiaxue's blog. on how girlfriends always flock towards the boyfriend's group of friends instead of the other way round.
another true but sad fact. like some innate animalistic masochistic thing where the girl follows, and the guy leads.
when i was the only girl attached, i tried to spend the big days with my girls, cos i didn't want to neglect them, or break the tradition that we were all used to, or disappear and spoil their fun, or make them think that i didn't care about them anymore. then the others get attached, and they start to drift. and then at some point of time, you realise that it's fine to leave your group of girls on such days, cos they've all pretty much left as well anyway.
one day, i'll have enough money to have my own house. with a large porch, a pool, and a nice back yard.
large porch for the cars, pool for entertainment, and the backyard for the gatherings. friends, girlfriends, boyfriends, everyone. just bring your own alcohol, and have potlucks and bbq.
it'll cater for all the events. no more headache on where to go. every big day, cassan's place!
sorry, i take that back. i'm a puker occasionally too. heh.
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